I can't really relate since I'm not on Facebook, nor have I ever had a romantic relationship end with someone I really care about. So take my comment with a grain of salt.
But, I think you did exactly the right thing. Why torture yourself with his updates? How can you move forward if you're still focused on the past?
I frequent a website for people who have cut toxic people out of their lives (in my case, my in laws), and one of their pieces of advice is to never JADE -- justify, argue, defend, or explain.
You no longer want to be FB friends with him, and he doesn't need to know any more than that.
I'm really impressed with how well you're handling this entire situation!
I can't really relate since I'm not on Facebook, nor have I ever had a romantic relationship end with someone I really care about. So take my comment with a grain of salt.
ReplyDeleteBut, I think you did exactly the right thing. Why torture yourself with his updates? How can you move forward if you're still focused on the past?
I frequent a website for people who have cut toxic people out of their lives (in my case, my in laws), and one of their pieces of advice is to never JADE -- justify, argue, defend, or explain.
You no longer want to be FB friends with him, and he doesn't need to know any more than that.
I'm really impressed with how well you're handling this entire situation!